"Bottom line is, even if you see ‘em coming, you’re not ready for the big moments. NO one asks for their life to change, not really. But it does. So what, are we helpless? Puppets? NO. The big moments are going to come, can’t help that. It’s what you do afterward that counts. That’s when you find out who you are. In the end, you’re by yourself. You’re all you got. That’s the point."
— Buffy the Vampire Slayer
